Monday, August 01, 2005

You Choose, Being Right or Being Loved ?

You can't have both ! When we try to be right, we are making the other person wrong. Will that make you loved ? No ! Being right all the time can be heard as arrogance and drives out loving feelings and affection. Being right is second nature to most people. We strive to be right about things. But how important can these things be that we are willing to trade being loved by those we care about most ? That is a very high price to pay for our egos and our Pride.
Will it matter a week from now ? A day ? Being quiet and less eager to correct others will allow you to just be. Perhaps what we need is to become Humble.
You only think you know it all. Who could love a know it all ? You Choose.